You can usually do almost everything you did before you got your pacemaker. See your doctor regularly to help make sure that you remain healthy and feeling good. Here are some things to stay away from.
A sudden weight gain or a steady rise in weight is a warning sign that your body is retaining too much water and salt. This could mean your heart failure is getting worse. Weighing yourself each day is the best way to know if you're retaining water.
To help you listen to each other’s feelings, you might try this “talker and listener” approach. First, one person is the talker and the other is the listener. Then you change roles.